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Break ups!

there's a new line for break up now...it is.."Its not you..its me...Am not good enuf for you...you deserve better than this" this line is used by the instigator to make the breakee feel good...now whatever happens..whenever a relationship heads towards the break up zone...one person really feels bad abut it...It hurts! period.

the break up being mutual is another thing to argue abut..but I think if both the guy and the gal lose interest in the relationship(which often happens..as we see so many breakups..) it is better to part ways healthily...and u can be friends or enemies after that..u can always decide upon that..but remember its a small world...so a little civility and politeness when u run into each other around the corner....wudnt hurt u. This is as good as it gets..coz everyone wud dream of a mutual break up..coz there is no awkwardness hanging in the air...

If its a one sided relationship .....it is better to move on. If u wanna feel miserable and waste your life..hey..thas ur choice..dont blame the other person who has made it clear that she/he doesnt see the relationship goin newhere and has put an end to it.

Being friends after the break up is clearly awkward sometimes..k..most of the time....but if u were already good friends and then u take the relationship to the next level..as everyone says...a good friend makes a good companion for life....one fine day...u break up with this soulmate...now......u lose everything... a damn good friend and a wonderful companion..whom now u loathe to the extent that u wud rather see them burn to death in the deep corners of hell!!!now thas another topic to debate ....some people say that...u cannot be friends with ur friend again once u have taken the relationship to the next level..this love that blossoms...It is usually a spur of the moment thing and then later on when u do break up..u regret it...or well if it really works..nothing can get better than that! People say ur ego is hurt..thas y...u dont wanna really be friends with the instigator again...did u ever think tht u place so much trust in the other person and when they do this to u..i think its more than the ego ths hurt..did u ever think abut that?

I personally feel that in ur teens this love thing is nothing but jus plain infatuation..and well when u do grow up and then get outta these crushes and infatuations...its true love most of the time..but well being human..we tend to go wayward sometimes and we start to lose interest...also there is the pressure of the family...(the background, the race,the religion of the gal/guy is very important!). Mostly when u start working..and start seein some bucks..u tend to think abut ur future..which is very natural..and then there is this gal/guy at work who shows some genuine interest in you..u two spend a lotta time together..and then...well one fine day..u decide to spend ur life together...sounds like a fairy tale doesnt it?? aaaaannnnnnnn wrong!! most of the times..they break up..after sometime..and the ones that carryon are good..they make it work...its seriously advised to tread ur steps cautiously around the thing called love..coz u never knw whom u mite hurt..or who mite hurt u....well u cant live with that constantly...but yet..u learn to live with it...

then there is the rebound...after the break up...u dont really getover the previous person..and then since u r hurt..u r on the warpath..and end up breaking the rebound persons heart!

Oh my God! this is a crazy path to take..i think am better off being single!! naa..jus kidding!!
The best way to handle a break up mutual or not mutual... would be to move on. Dont hold on to it and make ur life miserable. Lettin go is not easy..i know ,but if u want ur life back u better let go..if its urs..its gonna come back to u...u dont have to be this sacrificing sage to wish him/her well and help him/her out till he/she gets married..or even after that...jus be a normal person..bid ur goodbyes and move on. may be he/she is not right for you and u found that really early. consider urself lucky...and well as they say..All good things have to come to an end!! who knows...u mite meet ur Mr/Ms.Right very soon..and well u mite go thru these breakups...again..
but hey..then again...thats life aint it?
Think abut it!! and prepare to be surprised!!

didnt u know that tomorrow never comes??

K i said i would post more tomorrow..and well by that i meant the tomorrow never comes or the tomorrow never dies..i dunno wat i meant..but i havent posted in a long while..its been a week. hurray!! another milestone achieved!!

seems like love is in the air and its not even february 14th! of late i have been hearing so much abut love that now it makes me sick. i dont even wanna talk abut it.

well..my money was on henin hardene and she won the women's title in the french open. She is a real go-getter.
i have become so lazy that i am continuing this blog after a week frm where i left off. ..neways now MJ is also acquitted i have no comments on that one..as the newspapers give out all that everyone has to say..so read the papers..i luved Jay Leno's comment though...

Schumi didnt win yet another GP...
so many things have happened during the last week..i dont wanna talk abut it though...coz i will b exhausted listing them here...neways..am goin thru a phase i think and i hope to get outta it eventually...i dont wanna get stuck here...jus wanna get my head clear outta this..ths all..
will pen in more later..

technically tuesday? think otherwise....

well..the week has officially started....wat a heck of a weekend it hs been for me..and my friends. neways..i did talk quite a bit abut it yday...was just browsing and found this site
www.crazythoughts.com
its a nice site with some intriguing absolutely crappy, stupid questions...but u will have a nice laugh once u read them...so wats new?
Looks like Miss Canada is the new miss universe. From india..Amritha competed...whos that? i have never heard abut her? she was femina miss india am assuming.
The Russians are ruling the turf..or shud i say the clay courts of Roland Garros. That is something interesting after so many years of domination in gymnastics...the russians are also trying to make a mark in Tennis. Safin loses...Womens tennis is gettin interesting with the battle of the ages..as they are now down to the final eight...Pierce is pitted against Davenport..and the espn quotes that it shud be an interesting match to watch. I put my money on henin hardene..now lets c where that goes. Sania Mirza...wat in the world happened to her???

Yet again Schumi is being written off .....lets c what he does in the forthcomin races. The ferrari did have a podium finish with Barichello makin it in as the third...Buck up team FErrari...go for it!!
I didnt know that Amitabh didnt take money to act in Black...that was absolutely a shocker...he didnt take money to appear in paheli...kaante either!! man he is the" MAN"
I am totally outta other stuff to write..coz i havent done anything much these last few days.
will write in more tomorrow